Oblate Progress

I wasn't sure how pursuing oblation would effect my life. I entered into this sort of blindly. I had certain desires one of which was a consistent progress for transformation.

Along with reading the Breviary each day, my daily reading includes Joan Chittister's commentary on the Rule of Benedict. This book has been the key for me. As she makes modern application to the Rule I find a tool to challenge and encourage my daily life.

One rule in particular has impacted me. It is from Chapter 66 of the rule: The Porter of the Monastery.

"(the porter is to be) prompt in responding to people with the warmth of love; and actually grateful for the presence of guests. When the person knocks - whenever the person knocks - the porter is to say, 'Thanks be to God' or 'Your blessing, please' to indicate and welcome at all times, not just when it feels convenient. In the Rule of Benedict, there is no such thing as coming out of time to the monastery. Come in the middle of lunch; come in the middle of prayer; come and bother us with your blessings at any time. There is always someone waiting for you."

In my desire to open a retreat center this is how I want my heart to be. And, not only regarding a retreat setting, but in my daily life. I want to look at each person I encounter as a blessing; a blessing and a gift of the moment. This may sound simple and expected but I know I have had times of not doing it well. Here is one. A few weeks before Christmas a man came to our door wanting to give us an estimate for new windows. I told him no, we were not interested. He continued to try to sell me. I finally closed the door as he continue on. Later in the evening I realized how unwelcoming I had been. The guy was just trying to make a living. Who knows what his living situation may have been. What if I had actually invited him in and offered him something warm to drink and asked him how he was. Impractical? Maybe. But I want to be that kind of person. Father, be gracious to me a sinner.